Many Christians feel they aren’t equipped to counsel. Yet, when our brothers and sisters in Christ encounter trials, suffering, and sin, we are called to help them “grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ,” by speaking the truth in love.
The Need for Quality Christian Counseling is High
“Counseling is not just about problem solving. It is about pointing believers to the glory, beauty, and sufficiency of Jesus Christ that leads to a deeper communion and enjoyment of Him.” Dale Johnson
1. Association of Biblical Counselors
Association of Biblical Counselors exists to enlist, equip, enrich and encourage all believers everywhere to live and counsel the Word, applying the Gospel to the whole experience of life. Association of Biblical Counselors (christiancounseling.com)
2. Association of Certified Biblical Counselors
Resources, training and certification to promote excellence and doctrinal integrity in biblical counseling. Find a Counselor – Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (biblicalcounseling.com)
While divorce is undoubtedly one of life’s most challenging experiences, it can also be an opportunity for profound spiritual growth and understanding. Grace and divorce are intertwined, offering a path to forgiveness, redemption, and healing. By extending grace to yourself, forgiving your former spouse, and using your experiences to help others, you can find solace and strength in your faith during this difficult journey. As the Apostle Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 12:9, “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” In your vulnerability and reliance on grace, you may discover a newfound sense of peace and resilience.
For more resources and support on divorce recovery, consider subscribing to the Unyoked podcast and visiting toddturner.com/divorce. You’re not alone, and together, we can find healing and hope in the aftermath of a Christian divorce.
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