Divorce can leave you feeling like a shattered vase, the pieces of your life scattered and unrecognizable. The idea of “starting over” can feel overwhelming, even impossible, when you're still grappling with grief, anger, and confusion. But starting over isn’t about pretending the vase is whole again overnight. It’s about carefully gathering those fragments and deciding what you want to create with them. It’s about building something new, even if it's imperfect.

Divorce, even when amicable, often leaves a residue of difficult emotions. Among these, shame can be particularly debilitating. Shame whispers that you’re flawed, a failure, or unworthy of love. Understanding and addressing this shame is crucial for your divorce recovery journey.

The first 90 days after a divorce are often the hardest. The legal battles might be over, but the emotional ones are just beginning. You're navigating uncharted territory, feeling a mix of relief, grief, fear, and maybe even a little bit of excitement. This survival guide is designed to help you not just get through these initial weeks, but to start building a foundation for a brighter future.

Divorce can be difficult, but there are many myths that can make it harder. Let’s set the record straight with these truths that Christians need to hear.