by Todd Turner
Divorce Recovery Podcast
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Divorce Devotional
- Acknowledging the Awkwardness: Divorce can make attending church services and engaging with familiar faces an uncomfortable experience. It’s essential to recognize that these feelings are valid and that many individuals going through divorce share similar sentiments.
- Permission to Step Away: The UnYoked Podcast encourages those facing divorce to give themselves permission to step away from church activities for a season. Missing some Sundays, unvolunteering, or exploring other churches can provide the necessary space to navigate the complexities of divorce.
- Challenging Misconceptions: The idea that consistent church attendance is the sole solution to healing can be misleading. It’s crucial to challenge misconceptions and understand that your small group may not be equipped to guide you through the unique challenges of marriage and divorce.
- Prioritizing Self-Care: During this challenging time, prioritize self-care without feeling guilty. Taking a break, getting some rest, sleeping in, and finding solace in solitary moments of reading the Word can contribute significantly to the healing process.
- Empowering Choices: You have the agency to make choices that align with your comfort level. Pastors may offer guidance, but it’s okay to release unnecessary burdens. Remember that people, not just programs and buildings, make up the church.
Conclusion:
Navigating divorce and church awkwardness is a unique journey for each individual. By acknowledging the discomfort, granting yourself permission to step away, challenging misconceptions, prioritizing self-care, and empowering your choices, you can navigate this challenging time with grace and resilience. The UnYoked Podcast serves as a valuable resource for those seeking support and understanding in their divorce recovery journey.
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